The Adoptee sent to counselling....."The Identified Patient"
For further reading: (key words) Identified Patient, (IP)
Parents will never admit that they are responsible for the problems propagated in their home, creating the dysfunction of the child from the families (parent) neglect.
The problem adopted child, applies to all adopted children nearing age 10 to adolescence. When they are transitioning from dependent to independent. Questions of the reality of adoptees of: Who am I, Where do I come from and Why was I thrown away? The worst is What did I do that was so bad that I was given away to these freaky people? Questions that the adoptee is not allowed to voice or ponder except in silence. To voice these real thoughts and feelings will be met with anger,
punishment and may promote the adoption relationship to edge possibly ending or fastening the ending of the parent child liability.