About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Monday, December 31, 2012

Adoptee's Paid In Advance of Adolescent Liberty

Adoptee Rage..........

We Adoptee's Have Paid In Advance With Our Innocence.

The newborn baby has no awareness of obligation, conformity or contractual legal responsibility. The first 10 years are free to the buyer to do as they please. Human nature and documented progress of normal healthy children state that awareness of
the self begins to form naturally in the adolescent stage of development.   The adolescent stage of liberation where the individual becomes aware of the separate self from the parent.
The narcissistic controlling parent has a problem dominating the child in the adolescent stage. Normal parents at this phase assist the child in their independence growth. From 10 to 18 years the normal development of a persons individualism to complete adult independence at the legal age of majority 18. Teen age kids who live in unstable narcissistic and abusive environments can petition the court for legal emancipation to escape the mental imprisonment from their parental control. As the torment and anguish from the parent can cause further damage and permanent mental repercussions to the delicate self image of the teen. When the controlling parent refuses to let the child grow in to a healthy normal adult. When thoughts of escape
enter the mind of a teenager, there is obviously a problem beyond the "Bad", "defiant" label given underage children.

Why Does Adoption Becomes an Option?
Reading adoption agency handouts, I see the following reasons:
Infertility, Vanity, charitable contributions to society, medical problems, medical complications and stillbirth result in adopting a replacement child...
Most parents who adopt have problems dealing with their own infertility, or Not dealing with mental anguish over the death of a child., Adoption is a diversion and instant solution over actually dealing with your own mental problems. Buy a new baby and the problem is over for you.....And just beginning for the newborn baby taken from his family, biologic ties and now a foreign implant with great expectations for him to measure up to. However he will never measure up, he will become a parent's failure to parent. Not to forget his own personal and identity problems that will emerge now or later, but will come.
The focus is not on the child's future mental stability, which is forever ruined, the focus is on the satisfaction of the parent who now is forever in possession of someone else's baby.