ADOPTEE RAGE: Parent Teaching Survival Skills

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Imperative Regulation Changes In U.S. Social Service Administration Protocols.

Child Adoption is no longer a need to provide homes for orphaned children. The current financial status of the Adoption Industry 10 Billion Annually, reflect supply and demand of human children to satisfy the wants and desires of U.S. Citizens.
#7. Internal Revenue Service Personal Income Tax Yearly Submission on Child Adoption. Tax per Adopted Child, No Deduction Allowance On Adopted Children. Funding to provide for services to adopted children and adult adoptee services.
#6 State and Federal Moratorium on All Government Financial Assistance and Funding for purposes of Child Adoption. Citizens who lack financial capabilities should not Adopt Children.
#5. Adoption Insurance Bond. To fund parent liability of future damage to the Adoptee, and Provide Funds to Assure the Adoptee's financial obligation of college education.
#4. Adoption Immigration: All adopting parents must apply for citizenship of Adopted Children through standard methods of application. No preferential treatment to international adopting parents. Adopting parents must wait in line like everyone else.
#3 Adoption Tax, at Adoption Finalization. To Fund Psychological Assistance of Adult Adoptees, problems of Adult Adoptees after age of majority.
#2. Third Party Attorney Representing the Child being Adopted, Retainer through age of majority.
#1. Central Governing Authority Regulating, Tracking Statistical Database of U.S. Child Adoption & Foster Care.

How Many Names Have You Had?

Adoptees are born and named. The foster mother #1, #2, #3 etc. also name the child. The adoptive parents give the child a new name as well. None of these names are a true indication of their identity. As when the Adoptee comes to terms with all of the facts of their life, some decide to create a new identity. The major milestone of adoption healing is giving yourself the gift of your own name. The fact that the adoptee has been used for various reasons by various people, the Name signifies the creation of the Adoptee's own identity. Not offending husband's but the Adoptee must establish their own unique life. To some Adoptee's hearing their first and last name

to address themselves feels like finger nails on a chalkboard. Hearing the fraudulent first or and last name is a constant reminder of invalid existence, subordination, being controlled and owned. Pick out a new name and become your emotional potential.

Adoptee's Search for Identity

The Search of self discovery begins with the validation of where you've been. Be silenced no more, begin a daily journal, Learn to cry for real, and then Get Mad! Speak up, speak out and let who you are come out and be herd. This is a life process for adoptees. Normal children develope their Identities in mid and late childhood. Their

development relies on environment exploration, and learning independent adult skills from supportive parents who raise Independent children by gently guiding to a goal of going out into the world wherever their interests takes them. We Adoptees must begin again, and start from as far back as we can remember to validate what is going on,how it impacts us and react to it.

Our silence has psychologically damaged us, and that is not in our best interest. We need to reach deep into our childhood and help that child!

When Adoption Became A Problem

The psychological truth about Adopted Children

has been intentionally arrested and information covered up. Beginning in the 1940's, Doctors in mental facilities began to observe unusually high numbers of adopted children requiring psychiatric care. The absence of biological children is the clinical comparison. Doctor's noticed a new population of mental patient with one commonality-Adopted Children.

The medical community began to document the statistics, create and study. Doctors presented speeches on the studies and published findings to the scholarly medical community. However the

clash with medical professionals over what was fast becoming a million dollar adoption industry then, and today surpasses the billion. Doctor's were threatened into silence. The fall out is two plus generations of mentally defect people, Adoptees.

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