About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Adoption Sucks by Arrogant Christian Followers

I say Christian followers because they follow like cows to the slaughter.
Reading some Adoption Sucks Blogs, The recurring nightmare of Christian Arrogance compounds, and astounds me. How the Arrogance of American
Christian's ruins some of the hope for adoption. The Christian in the U.S.
does not follow Christianity, they follow their Idea of what they believe it means
to be Christian. Each version is unique to how the individual paints their religions
belief. The only Christian uniform is the greed driven appearance to the outsiders.
California Christians enjoy the persona of wearing the Christian costume. Following what is currently sensationalized, The predictable drones covet celebrities, and what other people purchase. Cars, Homes, and Adopted Babies are
things that give individuals status in the eye's of their piers.  Their greed driven
personality is the entitlement that ruins a christian's personality. When Christians
purchase children, the adopted child becomes a possession and not a family member. (Example: When I call my adopted parent's home, my dad answers the
phone and says "Your daughter is on the phone") At 45 I am still regarded as her bought and paid for possession. I was raised in the same principal of ownership.
American Christians disregard all other religious philosophy and non religious philosophy. They verbally disrespect other monotheistic christian based churches,
including Catholicism as Catholic's do not discuss their personally held beliefs.
Unlike Christians the Catholic keeps his personal business to himself. The problem
with adoptive christian families all privacy is neglected especially the privacy of an adopted child. The family sees the adopted child as their personal act of charity within the Christian faith, and constantly seek approval for this large donation
that is constantly needing eighteen years of funding. Christian parents feel they are saving the non christian orphan from their inborn culture and ignorant religion.
To expect the promotion of an adoptee's culture and religion from the christian family is an impossibility. As they loathe any thought or philosophy outside of the only valid religious teaching. The only hope for these adoptees is that they can escape the programming or deprogram themselves when they flee at age 18.