About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Adoptee's Search Resulting In More Lies

When you are adopted, Being submerged in secrecy makes adoptees mad. We have no patients in life for liars due to all the lies that have been forced down our throats. . As an adult, the lying general public is infuriating. The older a person
-the bigger the lies they tell.  Fluster is the emotion most observed, than morphing into anger. Just how stupid and gullible do people think we are? when searching for truth about personal identity we bastards are in desperation mode and act with haste. The Adult that gave away their offspring wants to paint themselves as monks and nuns. They at this venue in life are stellar upstanding citizens. Then their dirty adult secret shows up asking a lot of questions, which is threatening to their phony public profile. My bio-mom was no different, In fact
                    This Bio Mom's lies are so frequent, so many,
even lying about things that do not matter., The best example was my question about why she moved to Arkansas? She creates this phony persona of extreme
Christian, servant to Christ.   She says that she prayed and prayed about where to retire. She wanted to serve god but did not join a convent or go on a mission where people actually need help.  Do you really think
God gives a shit about where you retire? Her third husband bought a home there
because they both are cheep....And the Klan meetings are close by.
My reality to the searchers is beware! Sometimes our fantasized family is much
more comforting than the real freaks that we seek.