About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Monday, April 23, 2012

Ignoring the Primal Wound

When a person's skin is cut or bones broken, thick "scar tissue" begins to cover the entire effected area. When we ignore the injury, it becomes infected or can break open the thick callous revealing a deep wound that will be difficult to heal within a long duration.
Through our life our body will always remind us of this injury by the pain and  appearance of this scarred location. Our flesh and our mind are made from the same matter, but scars to one's emotional damage are easily hidden and unseen.
Yet the same physical manifestation of scar tissue and healing attempt in the same
manner. When ignored become infectious, scarring wounds of the emotional self.
When an emotional wound is ignored, anger and hate are excellent ways to cover
the opening.  When we ignore the issue's need to resolve (with attention to the assault) The problem will repeat itself over and again in our head, until we explode
or intentionally suppress the problem deep down inside. Living out our lives with these miserable unresolved issues that now play nightly in our dreams or silent thoughts kept quietly to ourselves. Counselling can help us but our culture denies it's necessity., Our society is busting with emotionally damaged individuals whom ignore their problems and pretend that everything is fine on behalf of appearances.
These individuals go on to hurt and kill innocent people, kill themselves or end up in prison. Exist under the law radar living miserable lives of the ordinary.
 This behavior pattern is reflected daily in the newspaper of every town in the U.S..
If our culture took responsibility for their hate and bias, our world would evolve.
Being accountable for our actions and aware of the harm we give daily to others is a monumental change to everyday life in America.