When tip-toeing around the fact, an adoptee's two legal names. All adopted persons have two identities. The original real name,
and the fictitious adoptive name change. This fictitious name
that adoptees are forced to accept by law, but in our hearts we will never give it the respect that law demands. Young adoptees
plan to find themselves at their legal adulthood age of 18.
Adult adoptee's view the entire 'adoption secrecy quagmire' as
redundant, and absolutely ridiculous., The most hysterical fact of the Adoption Industry partner with the states is
that all state sponsored Adoption Industry Agency will clean up your sexual indiscretions, Pay you to ignore your child, and
legally backed transactions making sealed records not obtainable
to adoption victims.
Fact: In California, Filing formal court request to unseal adoption records., Providing legal documentation of illness and need. You are dying from an acceptable documented disease,and need a
Bone marrow transplant to save your life. The court will say No! As this case is not compelling enough for the court to unseal the records. They will use the privacy rights of the birth parents in
their rejection of your case.
We find a way, and like a magic wand, Our identity is found. We
begin to walk the road of self-discovery when we know who we are. When we know who we are, we begin to allow ourselves to
trust in the facts. So much of the adoption agencies files,records and documentation are LIES! What we have been told is LIES!
The only thing we adoptees can trust in is factual evidence.
Non adoptee, birth parent or adoptive parent may lie about so
many things to justify, or live with what their selfish and guilty offensives.